First, I'm sorry you are dealing with this. So many of us have similar stories. I'm going on 3.5 years (I think, my mind is not the same LOL). He also promised to cut all ties with the man he was having sex with and delete his profile from the gay hook-up site he was on. That didn't last long. His profile was back up and he's on it every day. I know this because I made a fake profile to keep track. Now he's uploaded some videos of him having sex with another man. Yea, it's that bad. Like Blue Bear said above, if they are seeking out other men for a good time, they are not straight or even bi IMO. It's a hard pill to swallow. 

 

It's been a long, LONG time since I've posted anything. I'm still with my GIDH. I was hoping that my secondary business would financially set me free. I have been a travel agent for the past 3.5 years (right at the same time I discovered his other life). The business was circling the drain, then this virus hit. It all but dried up. Now I don't know how I'm going to get out of this mess I'm in. I'll be 60 this month. How do I even start over when things are in the tank and people are losing jobs? 
He still continues to search his gay hook up sites, acts like a 6 year old when things don't go his way and just acts like a fucking asshole. I don't know how we even have friends. If they only knew!!

Hope everyone is doing well through all this quarantine BS. I'm finding the people that I thought were okay, are totally selfish pricks. Sorry for the language and thanks for listening.  

I like this idea too. 

So tomorrow is our 25th wedding anniversary. Do you think we will doing anything special? Nope.
I'm sure he'll be outside on the pool deck smoking a cigar and watching the world series while I'll be sitting at my computer trying to get more clients for my failing business. This is my life! This has been my life for a LONG time. No knight is shining armor for me. 

Thank you Rob. 
How I'll get through this I have no idea.