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General Discussion » Where are we all from anyhow? » January 31, 2021 1:48 pm

Figstrong
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Straight Spouse party would be fun!! I am from Atlanta Georgia , in a suburb

Support » Looking for support/advice regarding divorce » November 20, 2020 7:28 am

Figstrong
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JkPeace, the following makes so much sense. Thank you fir posting!
“A GID person does not love themselves as they are, 100%. If they did, they would not be in denial. They might or might not choose to stay in the closet, but they would stop being in denial and dishonest with a straight spouse. A GID person is incapable of selfless, honest love in a marriage.  A GID person learns to lie at such a level that they believe it themselves. This makes the marriage based on a lie”

Support » Get off the carousel and put you first!!! » November 7, 2020 6:06 am

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Rob Anger does give them something to hide from.  As each day passes, I am realizing little things I actually did not like about my relationship with my husband that I put up with for so long because I love him.  None of us deserve the abusive anger they give us.......

Is He/She Gay » A gay ex-husband answers your questions » November 6, 2020 12:18 pm

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I gain strength and courage from all of you! Stay safe and well! We will get through this.......

Support » Get off the carousel and put you first!!! » November 6, 2020 12:15 pm

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Best wishes to all of you navigating through COVID as well as this hell. I am glad I found this group. Thank you!

Is He/She Gay » A gay ex-husband answers your questions » November 6, 2020 3:35 am

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Sean, I am so glad you have been providing valuable information. Tonight, my husband finally said he thinks he is gay but does not want a relationship with anyone and that he can’t promise me he won’t cheat. He also said he has no friends, he thinks he has lost his children and that he is not attracted to me. I think he is gay, depressed, narcissistic, obsessed with money and possibly bipolar. With COVID going on, I cannot have him having hookups and possibly getting our children sick as well as me. My children are devastated. He took poppers. I am contacting an attorney as well as a therapist for myself.  I don’t have a job and I am immunocompromised. He says we have to stay “married” because I won’t have insurance and we can’t afford college for our kids. He does not want to get an attorney because it costs money.....Thanks for letting me vent.....

Is He/She Gay » A gay ex-husband answers your questions » October 28, 2020 7:23 am

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Sean, you have been a wonderful resource.  Thank you....

Is He/She Gay » A gay ex-husband answers your questions » October 26, 2020 2:57 pm

Figstrong
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Sean, thank you for all the information.  I don’t trust him at all. Of course he is saying he used the drugs for masturbation only.  I really appreciate it.....

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