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    February 19, 2021 2:35 pm  #31

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    Re: Snooping for Curious Spouses

    Thank you, Hawklover!

    These tips are amazing. Will add all of these in right now.

    Thanks again and very grateful for sharing your knowledge on these platforms!

    Update: added credits for Hawklover and LostAtSea in their respective suggestions. Felt unfair to not credit each, but happy to remove them if this is an issue to anyone.

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    February 20, 2021 1:46 pm  #32

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    Re: Snooping for Curious Spouses

    Forgot to mention, in Gmail account dont forget to check the Sent, important, work, or any other categories. Even if an email is deleted from the inbox it can still reside there.

     

    February 22, 2021 1:59 pm  #33

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    Re: Snooping for Curious Spouses

    Good point. Will flow in - thank you.

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    February 23, 2021 8:21 am  #34

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    Re: Snooping for Curious Spouses

    All of the information was useful but I hate to say that I am not smart enough to do most of it. I accidently listened to some answering messages last January at his other home on his home phone. Some were en lightning to say the least. I read his phone last October and I almost wish that I didn't. Some of the messages made me sick. 

     

    February 23, 2021 3:47 pm  #35

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    Happy to help you Gloria via personal message if you need any assistance, as best I can.

    I'd be lying if I didn't wake up to nightmares due to what I found. The audio files in particular have been burned into my mind.

    Yet, despite this pain, knowing conclusively that I was being manipulated and deceived has given me the strength to continue forward. Had my spouse owned up to it and been honest along the way, I'd gladly have never gone down this path. Luckily, we live in a time where she left evidence without knowing it.

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    February 23, 2021 4:46 pm  #36

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    Please send me a private message. I tried to message you and could not. I think that he would be happy to help.

     

    February 23, 2021 4:47 pm  #37

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    I meant that I think that you can help me.

     

    February 24, 2021 11:44 am  #38

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    Re: Snooping for Curious Spouses

    Messaged!

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