Thank you for posting this Julian Stone. I feel as though I have been in communication with Dr. Minwalla and he has written this paper about my life. I wish that my STBX could read and absorb this; but he already carrying around a tremendous amount of shame for what he's done. He's amicable, uncontested, apologetic and trying to help me get my new place set up all he can. He's not in denial; he's accepted that he is the cause for the divorce. This article and Dr. Minwalla's other work validates me. Thanks again Julian.
