OurPath (formerly SSN) Open Forum / Where are we all from anyhow?

**Posted by Upside** February 1, 2021 5:38 pm

Fellow midwesterner chiming in!

Epiphany wrote:
Currently I’m in the “take care of myself and give me space, I’m pissed” stage. I just don’t understand how he can think we are soul mates yet he gets to just have side flings on and off throughout our life. 😡.

Ha! I feel like I'm in a perpetual argument against someone who's not there. Beware house plants and furniture, I may continue to go into a 10-minute rage fest at random for some time.

**Posted by lily** February 1, 2021 7:56 pm

I live in Australia - no other Australians here at the moment I think.

**Posted by Ellexoh_nz** February 1, 2021 9:17 pm

lily wrote:
I live in Australia - no other Australians here at the moment I think.

Nah they'll be out there....reading, waiting for the confidence to put their toe in the straightspouse water.
Do what I did and add AUS. to your Forum name
Actually...if every body did that....!!!!

Elle

**Posted by VioletSea** February 6, 2021 7:12 pm

Hi! I live by the sea in England. It's just started snowing here and we never get snow so I'm excited!

**Posted by lily** February 6, 2021 7:30 pm

I live by the sea too, it's not snowing though, that sounds heavenly, it is hot and steamy - enervating.

re your question on Sean's thread - I grew up in England and met my GIDXH there. he was from Australia and I came here with him. It was an awful long marriage and I am very glad to be finally separated from him.

**Posted by Julian_Stone** February 6, 2021 10:57 pm

VioletSea wrote:
Hi! I live by the sea in England. It's just started snowing here and we never get snow so I'm excited!

This sounds really lovely. I did a lot of walking in those first few months when I found myself here...and always found myself thinking...I wish I still lived at the beach.

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**Posted by Hawklover** February 20, 2021 10:34 am

I'm in Florida

**Posted by Gloria** February 20, 2021 10:44 am

I cannot tell where I am from. The man that I discuss is well known in this town, this state, and another state. I hope that you can find someone close.

**Posted by LostNalone** February 20, 2021 11:49 am

I used to care enough to not out him with our location, but now I wonder why. He doesn't care about me beyond how it affects him. I'm in a small town in Arizona, USA. I hate it here and every day I dream of moving, all by myself. I will someday soon. I'm planning things now for the great escape to start living MY life, MY way.

**Posted by DeeDee1771** February 24, 2021 4:05 pm

I'm from a small town north of Toronto, ON, Canada. Well...I'm not 'FROM' here, but this is where he moved us as the homes were less expensive than Toronto, itself. I would love to be back in the city, but my dreams have never been that important to anyone.