OurPath Open Forum
This forum is for discussion of issues related to Mixed Orientation relationships only, that is when one partner is heterosexual (straight) and one is Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender or Questioning.
If this does not apply to your topic, please find another forum.
* Opinions posted here, including that of the Administrator, are the poster's own and do not necessarily reflect the views or policies of OurPath.
* As a peer-to-peer network, any advice given is that of a peer, based on personal experience, and should not be considered professional in nature.
* Any discussion of LGBT related issues is acceptable provided it remains constructive and respectful of other viewpoints. Hateful, degrading, or prejudiced speech and/or personal attacks will not be tolerated.
NOTE: Due to recurring spam abuse, you must register to post.
- Tamiam
- Member
Offline
Re: I need to tell my story...
Hi PittGuy,
Thanks for posting. I'm new to this site, and participating here really does help. I hope things are going better for you. Keep up that forward progression!
Tam
- Rob
- Member
Offline
Re: I need to tell my story...
Maresyd,
Thanks for posting ..it gives me hope. I'm only recently divorced and lock my doors at night for fear she'll come back to rage at me. I don't think we'll ever be friends. Right now there is still so much hurt she is capable of
..maybe when the kids are grown and independent.
I long for peace and the ability to love again. In the mean time the kids need a sane and stable dad and that's all I do for now.
"For we walk by faith, not by sight .." 2Corinthians 5:7
- maresyd
- Member
Offline
Re: I need to tell my story...
Rob, keep the faith. Find peace in all of the small things, and know that love, first for yourself, then your kids, and then someone who deserves you.
I promise, it's there if you look for it. What you are doing for your kids is amazing and brave. That's a big something, remember that when everything else seems dark.
The rage I fully understand. The irony is the rage directed towards the ones left behind is not for them.
I wish you all the best in your healing and do know that it will happen.
“Above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely of places.”