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- Supernova
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Re: Witchcraft, Novels, and more!!!
HeldHostageInHerCloset wrote:
As far as filing, She doesn't seem to know how much I know yet. Do I just file and have her served, or do I sit down with her first knowing that regardless of what she says, I've got to carry through?
I would not air any grievances, that will do nothing except make her mad and defensive. You want to give her a golden bridge to walk her butt out of your life.
Super, I think that's ultimately the tightrope I have to walk. I'll see what the lawyer says next week. I believe right now, I've got enough to avoid alimony and likely get majority custody, So those grievances may have to come out regardless. Though a shorter cheaper process would be nice, it may be worth the fight. But... that may just be inexperience talking.
I'm praying for you and your family.
- HeldHostageInHerCloset
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I've been dormant for a bit, but today marks 2 years since I discovered her IG account. I've been holding back on pulling the trigger, so many moving parts.. it's like watching wheel of fortune and someone has 1 letter left to guess on an obvious answer, and they still get it wrong.. Wanting to have ever piece of the puzzle in place first... but in this case, the puzzle keeps expanding with more and more blanks. Some girl she's been dog sitting for thru an app service, she started texting as much as 2300 texts in a 2 week period. More bars, it's constant.
Just noticed a charge to a shared account to what I would consider a gay bar. it markets itself as "inclusive" but most of their content/events are gay/queer focused... drag shows, etc. That'll be fun to ask about.
My daughter graduated and i wanted to pull the trigger, but then had to go out of town for the week.. now I'm back and she's gone. She was gone every night while I was traveling. Just left the kids with our oldest.
at least I get the bed to myself.
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Thread Starter- MarieSmith
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Re: Witchcraft, Novels, and more!!!
Just catching up here Heid - I remember first getting the bed to myself, weird after so long with someone but it's the first time I actually slept in a long time. But nightmares of him being in bed with me and me kicking and screaming for him to get out 
Thinking of you - "Marie"