Hey everyone! Just a quick update so you all, regardless of which stage you're at, stay alert. M ex-narc wife, who I went very low contact 1.5 years ago has cycled through the same process of reaching out. With fake kindness, faux apology, then followed by anger and mocking. I never respond and the cycle repeats. I ignore it, no issues. But she has just escalated to using the kids. She told them they would not have health insurance because she was switching jobs, then tried to dump it on me, but keep her alimony and child support payments the same. (Thats not how it works in my state). 

Long story short, I asked her to provide the court required documentation for proof. She didnt and told the kids they dont have insurance. I contacted my lawyer who sent a very detailed request to her lawyer. Guess what showed up the next day? The new insurance cards. Guess what the effective date on the cards was? The day she said they no longer had insurance. They had it the entire time. She used it to create an emergency to get me to contact her. Further, my oldest who is in college delayed treatment for a painful condition due to this. This woman has no shame at all and is absolutely disgusting. I share this not because it bothered me, but to show you what some of these people are capable of. She gets a ton of money from me and makes a lot of her own. Money isnt the issue. She is simply unhappy, despite being in a relationship with her next g/f (not the affair partner). 

Stay frosty folks. These people seem to never go away, even when I literally ignore her at every turn.