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Get out before it further destroys you. He is not worth your emotional wellbeing. I was suicidal and under medication. I stop taking medication after I left him and felt much better. Please get out of that toxic relationship. He doesn't deserve you.
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I can understand and most people in this forum too. I am married 21 years and it has been a month since i woke up in this storm. You are not alone, many of us are struggling but we need to focus on us. our partners have been selfish for years focusing on them and now we are miserable. I agree on what others say, work on yourself....your life is worth living.
Hang in there.
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Am glad you're concentrating on your own well-being, newtotheclub. That will help get you to the other side of TGT. That's the goal for us all.
Am also glad your response brought back this thread. There are different people expressing the depths of despair here. There's suicidal ideation from a few different posters.
It's common with TGT. I went through it too feeling nothing would improve.
I hope these posters got support and will check in if they feel like it.