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clem - I read your copy of her post and I think oh she's having a look see for a new girlfriend. Someone who will be sympathetic to her 'plight' will do just right. could be wrong of course, but that's how it struck me.
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Hi lily, thanks for taking the time to reply, I was sympathetic to her plight, I’m just not happy about using my disability as an excuse, my physical and mental health need to come first now, with the benefit of a couple of weeks of her not knowing I’m beginning to see this much clearer now, I think she needs to go on her own journey and realise what she’s left behind, I’m done with trying to be an empath and understanding her mental anguish with this. I need to clear my mind, hey I’m a level 7 qualified financial adviser, I’m not daft, but I really can’t fathom her mind and anguish any more.
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glad to hear it Clem. imo it is probably her way of 'making a living' I have been caught a number of times giving a hand to one of these women who I think is very nice and maybe needs a helping hand right now, only to find she wants an arm and a leg to go with it.
I am very sorry to hear you have had such a bad accident. I am hoping you have family around.
wishing you all the best
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lily wrote:
glad to hear it Clem. imo it is probably her way of 'making a living' I have been caught a number of times giving a hand to one of these women who I think is very nice and maybe needs a helping hand right now, only to find she wants an arm and a leg to go with it.
I am very sorry to hear you have had such a bad accident. I am hoping you have family around.
wishing you all the best
thanks lily thankfully I do have family around who have been amazingly supportive around my exes desire for exclusivity