Sean, Thank you so much for all of your support and words of encouragement you have given me during these past 15 months. You are the first person I reached out to after I discovered TGT. I was so lost and so alone. You helped me face my reality. I was always  trying so hard to make sense out of the "bullshit," my GIDXH kept  feeding me. I am now divorced for 4 months, after 44 years of being married to a GIDH. I will always be thankful for your guidance and support during the most difficult time in my life. 

I understand it is time for you to move on. I also am exiting from SSN, I need to move on, and not have TGT the focus of my life anymore. I wish you the very best, and thank you so much.

Onward..........
 

Sean,
Thank you for the honest help you have given me while going through this mess. You helped me to understand exactly what I was dealing with.
I wish you well.
I am also exiting this forum as I have moved forward after 5 years separation and divorce.
Good luck to all who are beginning this journey that we never signed up for.

Why the HELL are you IDIOTS groveling at the feet of "Sean".  He is an EVIL, DESTRUCTIVE, CRUEL, DECEPTIVE LYING - BASTARD!!!!!  Yes, I know you want the other "GUYS" perspcitve ( as if you didn't have enough of THAT already).  This entire thread is so incredibly CREEPY that it is hard for me to read it.  It DOES tell me that my "significant other" is ALSO a great big CREEPY CREEP!!!!  Wake up tell this CREEPY QUEER to GO TO HELL!!!

TwistingInTheWind wrote:

Wow....Sean has been helpful to many in the Forum. I myself questioned his involvement on the board but not as disrespectfully as you have. Calling us idiots is cheeky and insulting. 

You've obviously been triggered. Best not even go IN to this board if you can't control your anger

Elle
 

Sean
I am reading all of the questions and answers in this post and its like looking into my marriage. We have been together for over 25 years and 3 children. I always suspected something but could never prove until the last few years. When I was sent prove from someone, I confronted him and he confessed to many men, some who he brought into our home as friends. After over 25 years he brings up that he was sexually abused as a child. Wow! you had that many years to tell me this and never did until you were caught. We have businesses together and share a home with my family. Our children are in their teens and already don't have the best relationship with their father. He had a crappy childhood and would always use that as an excuse for how he treated our children. I have told him to get therapy(than Covid hit). He still doesnt bother to want to do this and compartmentalizes everything. We basically live together and run our business and thats it. I feel like he gaslights me at every stage. I want to get out but am trying to protect everyone else. NOT him. 
I spend time looking on our phone bill to see who he texts because I cannot get into his phone. I know I need to take care of myself. It just hasn't happened yet.