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Is He/She Gay » New cross dresser that is sleeping with other cross dressers » May 28, 2021 2:22 pm

georgiaonmymind
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My boyfriend of 1.5 years started cross dressing July 2020 and shortly after started seeking out hookups from Grindr. I knew about the cross dressing in July but only found out yesterday that he flirts with many men via text and social media as well as having sex. We just had a baby 2 months ago. Our sex life had been amazing until I got pregnant because I felt like shit so often.

I go back and forth between angry and heartbroken. He says he wants to be with me and wants to stop cheating but I just can't think of any scenario where that's enough for him. I want him so badly to be bisexual and I am enough but I have no hope. He has nothing to fall back on so I am the only thing going well in his world.... until now, living a double life basically. He has no job and no car, he relies on me for everything. So of course he wants to stay with me, and because he's closeted he can't acknowledge the gay behaviors.

Can these 2 worlds even exist at the same time? A cross dressing bisexual man with a girlfriend and kids??

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