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| Support » My head is messing with me » August 15, 2019 4:52 pm |
- Trance90
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My wife of 15 years recently came out as “not straight “. We decided to try an open on her end relationship, she is dating another late bloomer and they have yet to consummate their mutual attraction. My wife she doesn’t want to leave our family and does enjoy sex with me. I told her to explore these feelings she has and to always be honest with me. I have this little feeling in my in the back of my head that worries when she has her first experience her feelings for me will change. I was asking those of you with similar experiences what you think, because to me I do worry that feelings change especially if this other woman changes them for her. I am going to support her no matter what she chooses because her happiness is important to me. Sorry if rambled to much
| Is He/She Gay » My stupid plan » August 12, 2019 4:50 pm |
- Trance90
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I confronted her last week and we aired the laundry she said it all with no prompting from me. She stated she wants to stay together and do as well. I said if she ever wants to leave it’s her decision. As this this is the second time this happened to me (first was LTR girlfriend). I am done with the hunt, I don’t want to look for another relationship. Somehow we are both happier then we have been in awhile. So I told her to discover herself as she states sex with me is good, and is not looking for a replacement. I have decided she can have a open relationship on her end as long as we are both honest and communicate. I was afraid to post this because I am sure you guys who gave wonderful advice will say I’m nuts but I had to share.
| Support » How did this happen? » August 7, 2019 4:43 am |
- Trance90
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I agree this whole situation is so f**kin confusing. I think from what seeing her ability to lie like a master. She told her girl I planned a weekend for us when she was the one who planned it.. If i had not found this out i would say things are still normal she is loving says she loves me, but is this an act to keep me passive who the hell knows. All i know is at this point I have slept 4 hours the last three days. All the stories i read hear say the sex between husbands and their closeted wives is rare and they never initiate, well mine does. Also the last text I read said she thinks of her when she is with me...of course this could be a lie
| Is He/She Gay » My stupid plan » August 6, 2019 8:00 pm |
- Trance90
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Since I found my wife’s texts with her new friend saying she needs to have sex with her to see if this gay thing is for her. She has no idea I know about this or even her friend. I am going to let this play out between them so then I will have an idea if this is an experiment or for real. Each night I have to stay up longer than her to get her phone so I know where in this damn farce I am. Waiting for her tell me to visit my friend for the weekend so I will be out of the way. What shit this is.
| Support » How did this happen? » August 6, 2019 6:18 pm |
- Trance90
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I agree somewhat I find it impossible to love 2 people at once and she will go for the new and exciting and try have her cake and eat it too. The real world is not friends or 3s company
| Support » How did this happen? » August 6, 2019 5:11 pm |
- Trance90
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I discovered but she doesn’t know I know. I read these texts at night she stated I am oblivious and let her do what she wants.
| Support » How did this happen? » August 6, 2019 3:48 pm |
- Trance90
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I have been married for 15 years. I found out recently that my wife has gone on two dates with a woman she met in a Facebook group. I read her texts and she states her boredom with our marriage. They did some heavy petting last time and told each other they liked it. They both state they have done no more than this before. However the line that floored me was my wife stating she wanted to taste her and she was wrecking her mind. I had read an early text that she was looking for someone but didn’t plan on leaving me. She is still intimate with me a states she loves me however I can’t help but question if this is true. I am so confused right now I can’t figure this out. Any thoughts I would love to hear
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