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1 | Is He/She Gay » A gay ex-husband answers your questions » May 17, 2019 10:29 am |
- Sunflower
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Sean,
Thank you for the honest help you have given me while going through this mess. You helped me to understand exactly what I was dealing with.
I wish you well.
I am also exiting this forum as I have moved forward after 5 years separation and divorce.
Good luck to all who are beginning this journey that we never signed up for.
| Support » If your gay spouse chose monogamy, would you accept? » December 24, 2018 2:01 pm |
- Sunflower
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Once the trust is broken over and over,he is who he is.
So, my answer would be no, I wouldn’t want to continually be questioning everything he said or did.
I did that for too long when I was married and never knew what the underlying problem was in our 32 year marriage.
Life is so much better with him not in my life.
| Is He/She Gay » Not all Bi men are on the way to "Gaytown". » November 22, 2018 2:20 pm |
- Sunflower
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Seriously Vicky! Why so angry? I just read your old posts about your husband being GID. Is the situation getting to be too much after 2 years of living with someone like Happyland,it is all hitting a nerve now?
If I am wrong,please tell us how your life is going.
| Is He/She Gay » Not all Bi men are on the way to "Gaytown". » November 21, 2018 3:22 pm |
- Sunflower
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Happy land,
We,who are straight spouses aren’t from “Happy Land”.
What was your point in posting this?
Why are you here?
We have been lied to, cheated on and betrayed to for years. I don’t need to hear how wonderful you are.
| Is He/She Gay » A gay ex-husband answers your questions » October 31, 2018 8:22 am |
- Sunflower
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Duped, I was married for 30 years,separated for 3 years and now divorced for a year this coming December. Hope that answers your question.
| Is He/She Gay » A gay ex-husband answers your questions » October 31, 2018 8:12 am |
- Sunflower
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I want to thank you Sean for posting here about yourself. I have found your replies most helpful,you have answered so many of the questions that had been going on in my mind.
I don’t know why all of a sudden you are being attacted and why this is triggering a couple of people on this forum.
Why read Sean’s postings if you are bothered by what he has to say?
Thanks again for helping me understand what has happened in my life,Sean.
| General Discussion » Confused » September 10, 2018 1:33 pm |
- Sunflower
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You are still so young. Don’t stay as some of us did until you are older,especially if you want to have children. You are prolonging what most likely will end in divorce as he will continue to have and hide his gay inclinations. I wish you the best. Sometimes we just need to rip off the bandages, feel the pain and move forward.
I am 73 now and my life is so much better without my GID X.
| Support » Is it ok to be kind/caring weeks after disclosing or am I delusional ? » August 16, 2018 5:41 pm |
- Sunflower
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Wow OHC, so many times I have wanted to say what you just said! Sometimes you just need to put it out there.
| Support » Is it ok to be kind/caring weeks after disclosing or am I delusional ? » August 16, 2018 2:57 pm |
- Sunflower
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I had to finally realize when going through a three year separation and one year divorce after 30 years of marriage that.....Loyalty DID have an expiration date. I gave him loyalty through it all, none from him. So happy to be rid of him. I am happier than I have ever been. I used to feel lonely when I was with him,no more. Loving my aloneness.
| Support » Question for men » August 3, 2018 3:50 pm |
- Sunflower
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Phoenix... I agree. They call themselves Bi until they get used to being out. When they are comfortable with saying Bi they can then admit they are as Gay as the Rainbow!