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Wed Sep 27 1:04 pm  #41

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Sadly I'm familiar with this..  it was one of the hardest parts of my ex destroying the marriage by cheating.. the lack of empathy or compassion.    My tears were met with rage with scolding and contempt;  "dont cry in front of the kids,  your such a baby,  you need professional help,  grow up".    It is inhumane.   It is cruel.
It took me so long to come to accept the fact that I would get no comfort or anything from my ex as she
knew she was causing it...  all she could do was hurt me further and shift blame.  

I'm ok now.. I did get professional help.    A therapist, lawyer etc.    I'm away from her and her "broken moral core".    Its definitely hell  as we think these spouses we love had morals and ethics similiar to ours.

"For we walk by faith, not by sight .."  2Corinthians 5:7

Wed Sep 27 11:52 pm  #42

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I have been fragmented. for 40 years.  you youngin's., run like your hairs on fire, thank god i found this site 


Thu Sep 28 8:35 pm  #43

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Run Sugar, run. Don't waste another moment. Your moment is now.


Thu Sep 28 8:46 pm  #44

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MY GOD, I just googled beard. And the hits just keep coming. 40 years of flashbacks. OMG


Thu Sep 28 8:48 pm  #45

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There is a specific word for me. Beard. i am sick  sicker


Thu Sep 28 8:59 pm  #46

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NO WONDER I am crazy. My God. Who would do this to another human being? I will tear up their worlds. Their alternate facts. Separate reality.  I am sooooo disappointed that i am on the DISCARD pile. Hey gotta move on. Right? I ain't in your closet any more. And you queens won't be in my closet much longer. I promise all and 'Sham'.   FU lying cheating sleazy skankie pants WHORE. Craiglist TROLL.  (o look, i put a sentence together.) and thats a start.


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