Duped..  You might notice that I added a couple words to the title.  I'm going to add the words "looking forward" to some of the posts that already exist and ones I find in the future.  I want to put an emphasis on creating resources to help us all look forward and the move forward toward a better future.  This thread will be one of the cornerstones of that effort. 
 

Big positive step for me - dating. I'm monogamous girl, so dating is a huge (and I do mean huge) way for me to distance myself.

I notice I am less inclined to listen to him. Less inclined to care about what he says or does. Less inclined to feel like he's an anchor around my ankle.

He insists still it has been all porn driven, and since he's stopped the porn, a fog has lifted off his brain. Okay, great, I'm happy for him. Doesn't change anything for me though. He can do anything he wants with his "liberated brain", I'm busy doing me now.