Thanks Sam - for this and all you do for the forum.
I did what you suggested earlier on, and created an email account just to use for all of this straight spouse stuff. It was nice though, to just be able to quickly reply to messages that instantly "struck" me sometimes without having to log on, but it is far better to lose that ability than to have to deal with all the spam.
To anyone who is worried about registering, I did go ahead and create a "non identifying" email account for straight spouse matters, and I have had no problems. I had been worried and was wary of registering, but all has been OK.
Thanks again to you, Sam, and a very Happy Thanksgiving!