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**Posted by jkpeace** November 23, 2016 9:16 am

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**Posted by iamthelorax** November 23, 2016 10:42 am

My thoughts are that I have no idea what he wants to do for Thanksgiving with his kids. Has he said anything? He's perfectly capable of taking them to a restaurant/movie/whatever without you being responsible for his relationship with them. Forgive me if I'm missing something but it sounds like he's letting you be in charge of handling this for him.

**Posted by Rob** November 23, 2016 12:14 pm

Holidays suck with these ex spouses.. this is what they chose. They did this... I'm trying not to stress over it..
I say you drop the kids there for a a certain period of time. Then get them later for your dinner. Have your dinner a little later.. Its not your problem what he does with them .... if he were to take them to a movie or restaurant or something that would be good. You just need the kids to see him...nothing more you can do.

Every holiday is essentially ruined like this and I have a crazy ex who will say its my fault.. I 'm trying not to live in her world anymore.. They say you can spot a narcissist by the path of destruction around them..

Last edited by Rob (November 23, 2016 4:58 pm)