I'm very new to all this.  I found out 3 months ago that my husband of 32 years was having affairs.  He came out as bisexual.  He had been sleeping with multiple men-- paying them for sex or sexual acts- for a few years.  He claims to feel terrible, and says that even though he is bisexual he is committed to being in our relationship.  He is genuinely remorseful.  I would like to try to make this work but I am terrified that he will decide he doesn't want me again, and will seek out others once more.  Has anyone been a similar situation?  Has anyone been able to work past it?  I'm overwhelmed and traumatized but I still hope we can work through it.  Is this delusional?