Title says it all.

Boyfriend is definitely bisexual, not really out to many people in his life but to some close friends. Mostly just hook ups but has dated a guy before.

My question is—our sex life is very heavy on roleplay with some light bdsm. Have others had experiences like this in the past? I am realizing that we have never really had what I would call
“Vanilla” sex. Even if we have missionary sex with no role play it’s very rough and he rarely is looking at me.

Not a specific question, more like what are general experiences with a hyper sexual partner.