After she became a US citizen, I found out she was polyamorous and in love with her boss who made porn movies with her.   She denied everything, and left.  She just went to a romantic lesbian retreat in Napa with her soul mate and four other women.  She hid it well for the first 6 years of marriage, but she never liked me like most girls.  She wants a "no fault" divorce, and lots of money, including a house.