oh that's great. I like Vera too, I look forward to seeing it - the stories are so good. I'm so fed up with the closet being in the closet.
but it is still impossible to talk about it. Nowadays there are plenty of bisexual/lesbian women talking about how horrible their husbands were and not one of them even seems to think about the distress it must have caused a straight man to be married to them. To be believing the pretence over the underlying truth of her response to him. Who gets to hear that?