Anon2222,
I like how you wrote out the absurd things he said to you.
I got none of that..instead my GX made it about me...how I somehow caused her to have a gay affair.she thus could not accept or take on any blame. She had to make it mine. Sick.
I think many of us could write a bestseller or physcho movie with what our spouses did and said to us.. you just can't make this stuff up.
Keep writing..when you look back and see it in writing you will see how sick and broken the spouses we loved were.
"For we walk by faith, not by sight .." 2Corinthians 5:7