walkbymyself wrote:

Elle, I'm hoping you check in with us -- I think your instinct to have one conversation with all three is  a good one.  I know for myself, I felt like there had to be an end to all the lying and deception and secrecy.  

My son will be here, my daughter can't be and although that's not ideal (as far as the scenario goes) I'm not prepared to put it off. 
Hell yeah I'm checking in with the people in my corner! I have told nobody else my plans except one good friend and everybody here

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lily wrote:

good luck Elle.  Having your children there strikes me as a very good idea.  Maybe you can patch your daughter in by phone, as it were.

I think I'll go see her tomorrow in her lunch break. I really feel it should be face to face

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Toward the Light wrote:

I’m sending you courage and strength across the miles. You are never alone.

 
Toward ❤️ thanks

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congrats, Elle.  Just keep the deep breaths coming.  Hug from me.

Elle,

Head held high, face in the wind..       These spouses despite their physical presence left us long ago with there actions and words.     
Wishing you courage and peace.