Posted by Anon2222  January 15, 2023 2:35 pm | #1 |
Hi All;
I wanted to drop a post, just seeing how everyone is doing on their journey?
I signed up for personal training sessions, which I am really enjoying. I have stuck to 2 weeks of workouts so far and am slowly improving my eating. I feel better than I have for awhile. When I was filling out the paperwork.....I realized that I don't have anyone I would want to use for my emergency contact. I ended up putting gay ex down, as he would be the only person who would know what to do in an emergency situation anyway.
Leads me to my will....my parents are pushing hard for me to change my will/POA. Again....there's no one I am sold on using at this time....
So, what does a person do? I will have to figure it out at one point....but right now it just feels like there's pressure from everywhere and I'm completely overwhelmed by everything involved in a divorce after 2 decades. Everything is so intertwined. And it all takes so much time, money and effort.
Otherwise, I'm working at taking it day by day. And pulling together my own "whole new life". It hasn't been easy but I've gotten this far, so keep on pushing! And I'm down 2 lbs towards my 20 lbs weight loss goal.
Where's everyone else at?
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Posted by Ellexoh_nz January 15, 2023 5:02 pm | #2 |
Anon2222 wrote:
....Leads me to my will....
Where's everyone else at?
My life is comme ci comme ca. Still on a plateau. Still surviving.
I changed my will about 5 years ago. From what it was when my future was certain to changing the executors of my will to my eldest daughter and youngest son. I can't imagine what it must be like to feel you have nobody you can trust with POA though I too feel I should visit that part of the end of my life, it probably needs tweaking. My partner, as far-reaching and unrecognisable he has changed my life, is still the person I see most and who knows my daily ins and outs so.... something should change there. I can't give him less and expect him to have POA...ARGHHH!!!
The legalese will vary here but it's food for thought
That you are exercising and feeling better about where you are and where you're headed... makes me feel happy for you Anon
Elle
KIA KAHA
