Bertuccio & Blackie:
25 years of marriage & 3 decades together, & now my beautiful, beloved partner is a LW? It's impossible for us to wrap our heads around that as straight men. I'm 14 months into my situation, & she's recently told me she may walk away from our MOM, get an apartment, & if she comes back to me, then...? I turn 50 tomorrow: happy birthday to me. Hang in there, gents. We didn't dream of this when we said our vows to our wives. They changed, we didn't. I love mine still, but that may not matter at all. Be strong, & pray, if you are prone to do so. I'm pulling for you both.