Gloria wrote:
Ag103, I am happy that the visits went well for you. Sooner or later your children need to be told.
They do know already. He told them the morning after I told me while I was still drugged (we had wanted to tell them together but he didn't want to wait). I am actively working with the kids to get used to running the house and our lives without him even though he's moved into his own room in the same house.
If he upsets me and makes me cry I don't lie if they ask me why I'm upset. I am not going to hide what he's done to me or how ugly that can look. I also want them to know its okay to express their emotions. .
