OurPath (formerly SSN) Open Forum / In Person Support in Halifax Nova Scotia

**Posted by EricTheRed** October 5, 2021 11:30 am

Hello,
My ex came out as lesbian almost two years ago and we have been separated for a over a year now. We have two kids together and trying to find a new way forward as co-parents.
I am wondering if there are any other members here in Halifax or the surrounding area that would be open to an in person meet up?

Thanks

**Posted by Ellexoh_nz** October 5, 2021 12:45 pm

EricTheRed wrote:
....I am wondering if there are any other members here in Halifax or the surrounding area that would be open to an in person meet up?....

Welcome to the Straightspouse Forum Eric There are a few men here whose wives have come out and they'll have advice for you. I'm guessing your children are still young? (I'm a female straightspouse and from all my reading a family break-up of the straightspouse kind can be particularly bad when there are small children involved)

I'm in New Zealand, been a Forum member for 3 years and have found, if there are any other New Zealanders here, they are very reticent about contact with other members.The nature of the straightspouse beast is usually careful and private. Especially with new members.

Again....welcome

Elle

**Posted by rekamc** October 5, 2021 10:50 pm

I was married to a closet lesbian for pretty much my entire adult life. Have you tried seeing a local psychiatrist? I found that really helpful. Did your ex willingly come out or did you "catch" her?