OurPath (formerly SSN) Open Forum / Curious - do men have more fetishes and needs to fulfill fantasy?

**Posted by Stronger** October 16, 2020 7:44 am

In living out my own experience and reading in these forums it leads me to question if men (not specifically gay men) have more fetishes and needs to fulfill fantasy. I’ve never been particularly inclined in this realm... perhaps it is because men are forced into such an image for the outside world that their inner self needs to fight back... thoughts?

**Posted by Figstrong** October 17, 2020 1:34 pm

Interesting Perspective. .....

**Posted by TangledOil** October 17, 2020 1:36 pm

My husband is bi (straight leaning) and he doesn’t have any fetishes. He’s pretty straight laced except for some interest in penises. I think men, general speaking when it comes to sex, are more visual and get more potentially from porn.

Last edited by TangledOil (October 17, 2020 3:46 pm)

**Posted by Figstrong** October 17, 2020 3:49 pm

My husband is bi as well and leans towards being straight too. He and I are trying to work things out after he came out in August.......thinking about what you said.....