I read this on a messageboard I'm on. I've never heard the term before...

""there is quite a difference between bi and staunch hetros
staunch hetros are closet living mostly
have heaps of subconscious bias and live it as express social dogma culture
but never discuss it"" 

I'm getting my head around "social dogma culture" too, but the "never discuss it" part is so familiar.  
I wonder why I'm still trying to find a label for my partner, it doesn't lessen what he did, or what I feel! 
!@#$%^