Today I took my soon to be ex husband off of our joint checking account. Not before he only left me with 350.00 and 250.00 in savings but that was to be expected. I dont have much but what I have is mine. I put an application in for a university job. Scary to leave a company I have been with for 18 years but I need a job that pays more and plus my daughter will have free college if she attends that college. They are tiny steps as I still live in the same home as him but they are moving forward not backwards. 

ME