OurPath (formerly SSN) Open Forum / What does this mean??

**Posted by Kathyd** April 26, 2018 2:49 pm

CL AD RESPONSE: (from husband's phone)

Going to church...I am a church boy but I can not host but willing to split a room. You'll be quite pleased with me and my ass is great.

Does anyone know what this hookup is talking about?

**Posted by Ellexoh_nz** April 26, 2018 2:55 pm

Google "church boy urban dictionary"

I just did, it's about size

**Posted by Kathyd** April 26, 2018 3:00 pm

OMG

**Posted by Ellexoh_nz** April 26, 2018 3:10 pm

Kathyd wrote:
OMG

It could mean something else! But hey....it's a C'mon sexual Craigslist text.

Um....I thought I read Craigslist had closed down that section of their site?

**Posted by Kathyd** April 26, 2018 3:28 pm

They did. This was back when I first found out in December. One of many but I always wondered what a church boy was.

**Posted by Kathyd** April 26, 2018 3:30 pm

And of course, he's done with all that. It was a one time thing.

**Posted by Ellexoh_nz** April 26, 2018 3:39 pm

Just wanted to say Kathy...you must be on roughly the same timeline as I am (as in same side of the world?)
I hardly ever get to post on this forum in the morning (the morning where I am in the world I mean)

I found when I first joined, and mentioned where I was in the world, that other members were not welcoming of giving out that information. So.....while I don't need to know where you are in the world...I wanted to say....it's good chatting to you

**Posted by Scrupulous** April 26, 2018 10:06 pm

I don't know about 'church boy' but host means who can supply the bed and house for sex. So obviously your husband was willing to split a price of a hotel room with someone.
Kathy;
I'm sorry sweetie but why the hell are you trying to keep this man?!!? He's went to so much trouble to cheat with men!! HE WILL NOT CHANGE! I'm sorry to scream it at you and wish I could do more to help but this is the only way I can see to help you..I beg you to help yourself out of this nightmare. You will never be able to trust him again. You'll always be in a constant state of worry and wondering.
You are worth so much more than this!
XOXO

Last edited by Scrupulous (April 26, 2018 10:06 pm)

**Posted by walkbymyself** April 27, 2018 2:09 pm

What's "church boy"? Please don't make me google, I have no idea what kind of ads will suddenly start showing up on my news feed!

**Posted by Kathyd** April 27, 2018 2:51 pm

Has to do with size. Like "You'll be praying to god he still wants to get with you when he sees it!" Thats according to the Urban Dictionary anyway. Can u believe it?