I like the article, especially how it describes certain categories of narcissistic behavior.
One gotcha I can see from a personality disordered partner confronted with this is it's not my fault I'm like this. Please help me change. It can be another way to manipulate and gaslight a well-meaning spouse into accepting abuse.
There's always an element of personal choice and responsibility I think.
No - It's not too late. It's not hopeless. Even there, there's something I can do. I just have to find the will. Ikiru (1952), film directed by Akira Kurosawa