I wonder this myself. When I think about it, my husband was/still is lusting after women he sees on TV. Saying how hot they are, that he would do this or that to her blah blah blah. He was ALWAYS this way. I wonder if this is a 'cover' so to speak. I would always tell him he is being disrespectful by saying this and he would just blow me off. Now I'm just like 'yea, right..whatever!'.
“And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain, when you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.” ~ Haruki Murakami ~