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It’s appalling to me what people think is OK to say to another person. I’m so so sorry you endured that. The largest group of LGBTQ+ is bisexual. My husband is bi (we’ve been together 30 years and monogamous) and I don’t have a similar experience. My husband has always had a very high sex drive with me, and he is also very sweet, affectionate, compassionate, and understanding. I feel very lucky he’s my husband and vise versa.
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