Elle, Yes I have one confidant. But I plan to meet with my therapist soon. She has the back story because we have been in couples counseling. In Nov 2021, she told us that we need to let everyone go and focus on our marriage. Unfortunately, I am the only participant that is willing to focus on my marriage. I am also contacting an attorney this week. I will have a peaceful 3 months to sort through everything while GID husband is on travel.

MJM017 - JUST seeing this lol! User errors! Yes, I had my inflection point like Kevin! Now I just have to allow my intuition and the darn outright disrespect help me to break free! It is so hard. I am still looking for hope that he wants me 😔. Thanks to this group, I stood up for myself and told him to STOP the blame-shifting and this is clearly over. He would usually try to dominate the conversation BUT not this time. I called the lawyer today! I have three months of peace and planning time. But it hurts 💔 😢.

ELLE - The therapist knows some of it but not all. She advised me earlier to not consider staying in my marriage for the sake of being 'married' and the children. I will focus on my healing and get support to make it through this process.

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