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Thank you all so much. I have read and reread these post 1000 times. You are all 100% correct of course. I have decided that I am going to tell him that I want a divorce. I have to have faith that every thing else will fall as it's meant to. I am already such a stronger person than I started out as. Perhaps if he had made this effort 3 years ago when I first addressed this I would have bought the porn addiction story and tried to work through this, but he didn't and I've seen way too much now. For those of you who believe in the power of prayer I would sure appreciate a prayer for bravery and strength. Thank you all for your advice and support
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Bec,
A prayer for you yes as you begin your journey out of the valley/his closet.