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    April 13, 2017 3:43 pm  #1

    Lisa4kids
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    Confused!!!!!

    I teeter between being positive he is gay and thinking I've imagined it.  Yesterday he saw me naked and didn't flinch or even look at my body. I thought okay.. gay.  Yjats happened dozens of times.  Minimum.  Today I checked his phone history and he had watched porn while I was gone last night. All Hetero.  Not one gay or bi one. All the pat history pointed towards gay when it stopped seeming asexual. I guess he could just be bi and that's what puzzles me more?

     

    April 13, 2017 4:02 pm  #2

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    Re: Confused!!!!!

    My ex has lots of heterosexual spam, I have access to his emails now but I wonder if he signed up to these to throw me off the scent. They are clever, maybe he's logging heterosexual sites to fool you. I don't know, but I hope you find the truth somehow x

     

    April 13, 2017 4:15 pm  #3

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    Re: Confused!!!!!

    Yeah he signed up for all sorts of dating sites last year when we talked and discussed possibly being "open". When I looked he was looking foe a thin athletic woman. I'm curvy. I assumed then once again that he was just repulsed by my body shape.
    I hadn't seen him go on any porn before and he doesn't know I have his phone password so I'm just not sure why to think

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