So even though my husband still denies being sexually attracted to men or following the gay men that just appeared on his follow list on periscope, he felt the need to tell me today that his dad sexually abused him.   This is very hard for me to wrap my head around because he is close with his dad.  Talks to him everyday.  His dad is a bit backward, on the verge of mentally handicap.  He said he didn't know why he had never told me before and then said that something just told him yesterday that he should tell me.  He said maybe this is why all the porn....   Like I said he still denies watching the men, to which I told him I didn't believe him.   I don't want to be cold, but there is no doubt in my mind that he did.   I don't know how to process this information.  if it's true I feel bad for him, but why would he let our children be around this man if that were the case?  When he can look me right in the eye and lie, I don't know that I even believe this.  Maybe he feels me pulling further away.

Last edited by Bec (April 5, 2017 8:36 pm)