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Help with letting go
Deleting. Not ready to share this with a larger group I now realize.
Last edited by Alabama (December 12, 2016 4:25 pm)
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Re: Help with letting go
Hi Alabama,
Welcome to the board. Sorry you need to be here.
So..... let me confirm that I understand: he is NOT attracted to you, but he IS attracted to other women? I'm keeping the "attracted to men also" part of this out of it at this point because even a straight couple with the issue you described has some big marital issues. The gay thing just adds to it, but if he's not attracted to you and you're his spouse, then the rest is superfluous.
Why do you think he's lying (or rather, which part do you think he's lying about)? Do you think he's not attracted to women at all, but is simply saying that to appear as though he's not gay?
Please confirm that I've got your situation correct.
Thanks,
Kel
You are not required to set yourself on fire to keep other people warm.