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- Anon2222
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Re: Just Need Some Support with the Divorce Process
OutofHisCloset wrote:
Anon,
My advice is get a lawyer for yourself, if you don't have one, and make all communication go through the lawyer. You are putting yourself in a position to be further abused by a man who has made it clear over and over that he is willing to abuse you--and has done so.
Thanks. I do have a lawyer and the majority of communication is done that way. I try to limit any outside communication otherwise. But honestly, anything to do with him I feel like I am going crazy...
- 647osd
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Re: Just Need Some Support with the Divorce Process
Has his sexual orientation been made open in the divorce proceedings? That he actually left you but is now making things worse? I would get a new lawyer if yours isn't aggressive enough. I would sue him for slander if he cannot substantiate it. I would make his life a living hell if he persists in attacking you personally. He chose his life and to walk out. I would let him endure the process and move on. Get yourself an order of protection, a firearm if necessary, and/or a good loyal guard dog. I wouldn't play his games anymore.