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Re: Is it fair to ask my husband this?
I know this post is not recent, the problem is probably solved now, but if anyone with same issu is passing by, I have never heard of this thing that could be gay red flag, as in my community (Muslim) we are tought to sit when peeing, all of us boys included, for hygienic reasons. From my grand dad to my little nephews, Everyone sits in the toilets. And when the toilet seat is up, it is an Investigation on which man of the house did not sat!
So for me you should be happy, no more pee splash 