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Last edited by Estella Oculus (February 11, 2019 4:29 pm)
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I'm new here. 4 days ago my husband of 25 years shared (finally) that he is gay. There are no words to describe my state though i imagine others here know. we told our 3 daughters saturday and now i do not know what to do. he's still here in the house, in our bed and i feel angry, betrayed, devastated, terrified, confused. i think i want him to leave sooner rather than later. its too painful seeing him here yet knowing nothing is nor will ever be the same...
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jacki wrote:
I'm new here. 4 days ago my husband of 25 years shared (finally) that he is gay. There are no words to describe my state though i imagine others here know. we told our 3 daughters saturday and now i do not know what to do. he's still here in the house, in our bed and i feel angry, betrayed, devastated, terrified, confused. i think i want him to leave sooner rather than later. its too painful seeing him here yet knowing nothing is nor will ever be the same...
Hi jacki,
Welcome! I'm so sorry you are going through this. You are likely in a state of shock. We understand and hopefully we can help.
Could you start a new thread of your own in the "support" forum section?
Click here: http://straightspouse.boardhost.com/viewforum.php?id=3
then find the little box on the right that says New Topic.
This way we can get some dedicated conversation to support you.
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HI Jacki,
I've been where you are-only a few months ago. Married 27years. Theres a section called-support-. You'll see it on the main page. Please post for us in there. You will then see you are not alone at all. xxx
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Vic, this site is not about servers or their support, debian or otherwise.
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New here and this was a helpful post. Thank you!
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Can we please add....Mindfuck/abbreviated to MF,.....,to the Jargon list
said very tongue-in-cheek
Elle