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- MJM017
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Re: Feeling lonely, sad, and confused
I remember seeing men getting manicures & pedicures in nail bars around 2012. I assumed they were gay, feeling bolder, and gave no further thought.
A year later my GIDXH asked me for money (he wasn’t working) to visit a nail bar for a manicure with clear polish. I said no. Then he asked for a salon hair dye job, expensive men’s clothing, expensive male soaps/colognes, fancy razors,etc. It was out of the blue and so fast. This is when I began to feel repulsed by him. We separated 1.5 years later.
He never expressed interest in transitioning to female. Gay men in my city groom themselves like this.
I think once TGT genie is out of the bottle, it can’t be put back. It’s like being a little bit pregnant.
I am going to be non-PC: one has decide to pretty soon if you want a MOM or want a divorce. You save yourself so much trauma doing what is in your best interest.
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No - It's not too late. It's not hopeless. Even there, there's something I can do. I just have to find the will. Ikiru (1952), film directed by Akira Kurosawa
- Ellexoh_nz
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Re: Feeling lonely, sad, and confused
MJM017 wrote:
..........I am going to be non-PC: one has decide to pretty soon if you want a MOM or want a divorce. You save yourself so much trauma doing what is in your best interest.
It's taken me 3 years to decide I want out.
"soon" will be different for everyone, but I can state....if it wasn't for
the support of this Forum it may have taken me twice as long
KIA KAHA
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Re: Feeling lonely, sad, and confused
..........I am going to be non-PC: one has decide to pretty soon if you want a MOM or want a divorce. You save yourself so much trauma doing what is in your best interest.
It's taken me 3 years to decide I want out.
"soon" will be different for everyone, but I can state....if it wasn't for
the support of this Forum it may have taken me twice as long
This forum helps a lot for sure! I didn’t knew it existed until 2 years after my divorce and 1.5 years after my GIDXH passed away.
II am not sure what you mean by soon being a relative term.
I know divorce is very expensive & the cost of living is high everywhere.
No - It's not too late. It's not hopeless. Even there, there's something I can do. I just have to find the will. Ikiru (1952), film directed by Akira Kurosawa