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1 of 1- Zyxwvut
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I'm still attracted to my gay spouse
Any suggestions? I'm still attracted to her, but she's not attracted to me. We're stuck living together - we even share a bed - for the next several months, at least.
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Re: I'm still attracted to my gay spouse
Do you love her? Or just attracted to her or both?
- Zyxwvut
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Re: I'm still attracted to my gay spouse
Both.
She says she loves me too - like I'm her best friend - but not romantically.
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Thread Starter- lily
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Re: I'm still attracted to my gay spouse
well I think it must be pretty tough to share a bed with her when you are feeling attracted and she isn't.
I like to cuddle my pillow, it's like having a teddybear!
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Re: I'm still attracted to my gay spouse
You absolutely need to stop sharing a bed. And she needs to stop saying she loves you. Both are messing with your head. You are not giving yourself a chance.