How do you suggest it should be phrased?
 

This is a good discussion.. let's keep it going. 


My thought is that a large percentage of the forum is still in their relationship but questioning it and likely to leave it.   
That is a different perspective from those who are intentionally trying to keep their relationship together.  

The latter of these two groups often suffers from the negativity of the former.  When Sam set up this section the idea was to offer a positive environment for those who are committed to staying married.  I think everyone tends to question things, but my concern is that if we change the title of the section it will change the tone of the discussion to something more negative.  

Thoughts??

OOHC - You are correct and I agree - that's why I'm questioning Ellexoh's request.  It feels like changing the title of this forum section would start to change the exact reason it exists. 
 

While your at it you might want to change 'Making mixed orientation marriages work' as well.  The folks over at MMOMW in yahoo don't like it, it sounds like you're affiliated.
Vicky

My original reason for wanting the Strategies for MOMs was because I'd been refused entry  to the MMOMW group. I wasn't aware they talk about it over there because while they can open this forum and have free access....I  would have to be accepted to read their site...which entailed I think..a secret handshake and walking over hot coals to prove I was worthy.
I felt that with the emphasis on this forum of the majority of spouses ultimately wanting out of their marriages/relationships....that there may be some, as far as first approaching & getting involved in the forum, who would benefit from a board with spouses who were still undecided but needed the support of others in the same position, and that the wording needed fine-tuning to appear less like the Yahoo group.....in my opinion stringent and unwelcoming. 

Because not many post on the "Strategies..." board I have no measure of whether or not any fine-tuning would work, or if indeed it's even needed. The fact there have been just as many spouses who commented....who are already on the other side of this hell....may point to the possibility that I should never have brought the subject of a separate board to the forum's attention