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Well, since the other resource post got such a warm welcome, I decided to stick my hand right back into that fire!
This is an online collection of research, anecdotes, and strategies for people in MOMs to have happy, healthy long-term relationships. I found it to be a great source of information, ideas, and support; perhaps others may, as well.
Mixed-Orientation Marriage Pathways to Success
My feelings reflect exactly what the author Mark R. writes: "I am only one voice saying 'here is what I think, here is what worked for me.' Like a buffet, take what you can use and leave behind the rest. I hope something I might say might make your journey a little kinder and a little easier."