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Re: In the waiting game, but moving forward
OOHC, I suppose that is possible. Whenever he saw a hot girl on TV, he would go out of his way to say how hot she is or how he'd like to do her and so on. I just learned to ignore it. Thinking about it now, maybe it was/is a cover up of some sort. He wants me to be his mistress, like all the time. I think he is really really addicted to porn. He is always on some sort of website. Both gay and straight porn.
I know I deserve a lot better than this...not that I would ever trust any man ever again. I feel like I'm going crazy.
“And once the storm is over, you won’t remember how you made it through, how you managed to survive. You won’t even be sure, whether the storm is really over. But one thing is certain, when you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.” ~ Haruki Murakami ~