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    January 25, 2018 3:00 am  #11

    Duped
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    Re: Whose Life is This?

    Oh yes, he will try and make it all your fault. It’s your fault for ending the relationship...HE doesn’t want to end it. I heard all this crap too. I told him *I* didn’t end it, he did when he did all his shit. The fact that they lie and hide and whatever, THAT ends the relationship, they knew that and did it anyway. Tell him you wanted to stay together but HE ended it with his actions. Stupid people thinking they can continue to gaslight us and twist reality even after we catch them.

     

    January 25, 2018 1:42 pm  #12

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    Re: Whose Life is This?

    I think it would be very confusing for a 4 year-old to see Daddy in pink tights and skirts and a wig when no one's discussed with her what's going on.  I also think it's completely unreasonable for him to need to do that during his time with her.  He should be focused on HER during those times - not on how he wants to be seen by the world, or even his daughter.  It's crazy how warped they become, and how fast all their "I'll never do that" shit starts to manifest itself.  And if you confront them, YOU're the issue - YOU're not accepting, YOU're awful, selfish, etc.

    It's like they all turn back into teenagers again once they start re-visiting their sexual identity.  WHY?  Because we need to be in that mentality when we figure that part of ourselves out?  With the last of 4 teenagers being raised currently, let me tell you that NOTHING you say to a stubborn teen will get them to change their way of thinking.  They have a different brain composition, and they're just...... immature and incapable of processing certain things rationally.  They grow out of it, though - eventually.  Our spouses?  I'm not so sure.  Ish.

    Kel

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