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    November 27, 2017 5:27 pm  #31

    lily
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    Re: Gay bi or straight

    what I did in the period of time that I knew and we were talking and he was admitting to thinking of himself as bisexual is observe.  I looked at his skin colour, how he would go all pink and girly when talking about the boys.

    it made it a lot easier to untangle from the mindfuck when I could see he is attracted to men and always has been.  Not in some weird on the side way but full on attracted, the same way I am.

     

     

    November 28, 2017 4:35 am  #32

    Debbie
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    Re: Gay bi or straight

    I've already asked him all those things scrupulous while he was begging me to give him a chance and that he was sorry and was not gay and loved me 😫 I kicked him out the day I found out about his massage parlours ( took him 4 days before he did go after me saying I'd call the cops if he didn't and tell them he was being abusive ) I only knew about him going to two massage parlours ( saw the emails) andcwatching gay porn , that was all the proof I needed for my marriage to be over , any excuse about it only being those two times and nothing else just went in my ear and out the other , I have no proof of any anything else but I don't need it as I know or ( think he is lying) and even if it was only 2 times then that is 2 times too many for me , and I did love him very much and was still very attracted to him so it wasn't an easy thing for me too do but I've never changed my mind in these last 3 months and I never will. Only agreed once to see him as he wanted to talk but my answer was still the same. No contact now and I'm getting on with life and hopefully sooner rather than later he will be a distant memory

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